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[quote=Anonymous]OP, it really sounds as though you wish your DH was you, and guess what - he's not. He's him. He is there to bring balance to the hard parts of you. Once you learn to embrace that, instead of resenting it, your marriage can be saved. Sounds like you could compromise a little on your own behaviours without requiring him to change who he is. Doing that part will bring the stress level down in your relationship exponentially. Here's the kicker about therapy and counselling: There is a lot of use in going yourself. Because by posting here, you're showing that you're stressed and upset. In the absence of abuse, a lot of this is just learning how to manage our own reactions, perceptions, etc. [/quote]
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