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[quote=Anonymous]OP: I am sorry for the emotional stress you are having to endure, but here's a different perspective. THIS issue should not decide the fate of your marriage, it can be worked upon and improved upon especially when you both love each other. My Mom is like you, take charge sorta person, my Dad adores her, made all the money and gave it to her to manage the house and his life, she has done it happily and they love each other to pieces (she worked part time). I am like your DH and my DH is like you, over the years he has learned to speak kindly/gently to me, I can't stand loud, aggressive voice, It has taken him some time but we are there. I don't think it's so much laziness as opposed to him resenting you for "the way you ask for things to be done". I don't mean to criticize but observe your tone and way of talking/speaking to him. My DH and I have finally reached a point where I am taking on more of his qualities and he is trying to be patient, laid back and calm like me. You both will be just fine, hang in there. GL![/quote]
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