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[quote=Anonymous]I'm the PP who talked about the time for the Gottmann book but didn't post the other links. And I think folks who read the book and find it helpful push it hard because it really seems to help. It also (for me at least) seemed like relatively simple ideas. Not always easy to implement necessarily, but simple. And in a way reading his book felt a lot like the time I was first able to see one of those 'magic image' posters - it was a real 'A ha' moment for me. Hasn't been a magic bullet for our marriage by an means, but has definitely helped me feel less helpless in the situation and has given me the sense that there really are things I can do to improve things. I think working on communication issues is also helpful because it's actually a way that 1 person can singlehandedly help fix the situation, but in a way that doesn't build as much resentment as other approaches. At least that has been my experience.[/quote]
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