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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If the goal is for your DH to join you eventually and he doesn't earn much now, why not option B with him moving with you and doing a job search full-time? I speak from a lot of experience that it's much easier to do a job search when you're local. And it's very difficult to do a job search if you are also working full time.[/quote] +1[/quote] +2 He's the trailing spouse--he earns less than you, he has the debt, you're taking on a more stressful job for the good for the family. He gets to come too. While you lose his income for awhile, it will be easier for him to find a job locally, and there's no need for you to pay for maintaining new households. If you and he are ready to commit to moving, commit to moving. Especially if you know in advance where you're heading...time for DH to put as much energy into job hunting and research of jobs in that general area as it sounds like you are.[/quote]
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