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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Woman don't want to be married to another woman. We want to be married to a man. Sorry OP. You can't change this about him.[/quote]

The same "primal instinct" men that sleep with all of their co-workers?[/quote]

No, my husband is caring, but he still acts like a guy. He doesn't cheat on me; he just isn't all wanting to talk about feelings all day long. Opposites attract. We don't want to be with someone just like us. And "man" doesn't equal "jerk." I can see why a woman would not particularly want a super sensitive, effeminate man, is all I'm saying. Same reason a guy wouldn't want to marry a super man-like woman. [/quote]

Fair enough...what you are describing right there is much more effective way of conveying your point, as opposed to implying an all-or-nothing relationship that a sensitive man = a woman.

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I should never quickly fire off responses on my phone. Of course, I'm doing that right now! But I did date a really sensitive guy for a long, long time, and it took me forever to realize that, although we could talk for hours about feelings and that was great, it kinda killed the attraction aspect. Balance is good! My husband and I don't always understand each other, but trying to figure him out is part of what keeps things interesting. I have girlfriends who can fulfill the other role.[/quote]

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