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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I would make sure that the instant high school is over, if DD is still living with you, that she begins paying you rent. [/quote] Why? I know a set of parents who did this, and they're incredible jerks.[/quote] I don't have a problem with this, and I'm not a jerk. 18 is adulthood. Or should be. If my child is a full-time student, I will offer housing support on vacations and summers (or if going to community college). I still expect him to have a part-time job for expenses. But if he's not in school I will expect him to pay rent or find his own housing. Why would you not? Do you want an adult child just coasting for free until his mid-20's, losing respect for himself in the process? Adults support themselves, and it's an affirmation of your trust and respect for an 18 year old to treat them as an adult.[/quote]
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