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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP HERE.Thank you all for your input. I'm just si overwhelmed. I am a SAHM again. We both decided that the tween and teen years should have parent cover. Also we are older parents so I am now 48 and I've cut ties with the company that kept my job open through both my long maternity leaves because I didnt think I would ever go back.

I am on my husband's visa and a divorce/separation would require me to leave the country in 120 days. All 3 kids are in very good hard to get into schools and I don't think it's fair on them to uproot them from all that's familiar and from their father whom they love.  A Frightful mess. I really can not  believe this is my life. [/quote]

OP,

A big virtual hug to you! I am also on my husband's visa and the one time I seriously considered divorcing my husband this factored heavily into the equation. The sad reality is that non-citizens cannot get the same protections as citizens, and this hurts dependents in abusive relationships, private and professional [b](I've known many foreign grad students forced to work like slaves because their visa status was held over their heads).[/b]

The problem right now is not the deed to this house. The real problem is to find a job again, any job, that gives you your own work visa. I know how hard it is to get a job! Call in all favors, pull all the strings you can. Then you don't have to leave the country if you get divorced.

Best of luck to you. I hope not to be in your shoes. I've come so close in the past!
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No - Foreign students are not FORCED to work as slaves.  All CHOOSE to come here fro grad school.  Again, it is their CHOICE to be in this country on a student visa and work like slaves.[/quote]

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