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[quote=Anonymous]OP, my now-wife and I were living apart in different cities about five months into the relationship. She was not comfortable with the distance and did some dating until we were engaged and she then moved to where I live. I was not crazy about this and we had a number of talks in terms of trust and what fidelity means. We have been able to make it work and I think this issue brought us closer today by forcing us to discuss things that people too often sweep under the rug (e.g. are they capable of monogamy? What happens when they find someone else attractive?). I don't think you should get out of the marriage now but do think that you need a third party to objectively listen to each other's concerns. And do not tell a soul because that person will always judge him.[/quote]
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