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[quote=Anonymous]You probably won't find a woman who will,love your kids like you do, especially if she already has kids or wants kids of her own. It may be an even worse situation than with a woman who doesn't want kids of her own. Not only that, but are you trying to dump mommy responsibilities on her while she is there? That is not fair to her, and then to judge her by some standard where she is supposed to be all in.

I had a neighbor agree to me staying at their house temporary for $500 a month rent for just a bedroom. The neighbors daughter had her second baby, and suddenly I was supposed to love the two kids as if they were my own grandkids. Grandma would dash out the door leaving me to watch the kids. It got to the point where I would have to leave the house first early in the morning to avoid being stuck as a babysitter.

The truth is, your GF has no legal commitment from you, and you are asking her to invest her time and energy in your kids. If you dump her, as you are planning on now doing, she lost a lot of her time. Try looking at 10 years of her being nanny and baby sitter, and then the "real mom" comes back. What is in it for your girlfriend? Nothing. [/quote]

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