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[quote=Anonymous] OP - If FIL and new wife are coming from overseas, then have DH invite them to your home for a few days right after the party for BIL. Let MIL know that she is invited to your home at an appropriate time to perhaps help out with the kids while you finish last minute details with DH's assistance, too, and the night of the party, but then let her know that you will then have FIL and wife stay over a to meet the grandchildren and visit before their return or whatever. You are being upfront with her and giving her the priority status that she deserves, BUT you are also extending an invitation to FIL and wife, and you can see just how willing they are now and will be in the future to have a relationship with DH and your family.[/quote]
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