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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]If you're my guest I pay for everything. I appreciate it if offered help but not expecting any help. I would never agree to any long term stay unless I was prepared to fund it.

Just my opinion.[/quote]

We're prepared to provide 100% for our guests (up to a point) but realize that they may prefer to have bagels/poptarts/fruit/yogurt in the morning instead of the bacon & eggs that we're cooking or the cereal bars that we're eating. It's fine if they want to pick some items up for themselves to eat when they want to eat them.  Of course they are welcomed to the food in our pantry/fridge but sometimes what we have on hand does not appeal to them.  That's o.k., get what you like.[/quote]

I just get the things they want want to have on hand when they arrive.  [/quote]

We have different stores and they don't always stock their brands of usual foods.  So having on hand what they like and are used to isn't always possible (we learned this when we moved to our new area) and they may actually enjoy seeing the different options available at our stores.  Plus making a quick run to the grocery store makes it easy for them to contribute a little something w/o adding up to $$$...

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I would go to the fourth store before the come and have it on hand when they arrive, they can go with you with it runs out of need be.  If you are already going to three stores for yourself, it isn't too much to go to a fourth one .   If hosting parents is that big of a burden on your budget, there are other less passive aggressive ways to get there.[/quote]

Passive aggressive?  Really?? I guess I'm lucky that my own relatives would never expect (or want) me to search 4 different stores for a particular brand of bread or whatever. Nor would they want to have to go to 4 different stores to restock items when things ran out.  Not everything has to be an enormous pain, lol.  One group store run - you should try it.[/quote]

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