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Reply to "not so subtle weight comments from DH ruining my vacation"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]See here is the problem: you weren't fat back when he became attracted to you. Long term, the odds are poor for a marriage between a self accepting fat person and a partner who finds fatness unattractive. I certainly have lost attraction for my spouse who is over 45 pounds bigger than when we met and were married. [/quote] Did your vows say, "Till death or fat do us part?" Did you disclose your refusal to love and respect her if her body shape would change? Have you ever actually observed, say, human beings to see how people typically age? What percentage of people look as attractive after 30 years? Why would you marry someone for life assuming they would look even remotely the same after decades? [/quote]
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