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Reply to "not so subtle weight comments from DH ruining my vacation"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]See here is the problem: you weren't fat back when he became attracted to you. Long term, the odds are poor for a marriage between a self accepting fat person and a partner who finds fatness unattractive. I certainly have lost attraction for my spouse who is over 45 pounds bigger than when we met and were married. [/quote] And when the man, who stays the same weight but has saggy skin, jowly cheeks, droopy eyelids, saggy dangling scrotum, thinning wispy hair .... when the man looks that like that -- not if, but when -- what then? I think by your reasoning, he should not be self-accepting about this. The prognosis for their long marriage are poor, and his woman is justified in finding all this saggy, grey, crepey low-hanging balls "unattractive." He did not look like this when she became attracted to him. [img]http://images.bidnessetc.com/content/uploads/images/source/arnold_schwartzenneger_fs.jpg[/img][/quote]
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