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[quote=Anonymous]It's not your place to tell. I'm wondering, though, why you're enabling her by offering her money that you don't have? YOU ARE ENABLING HER DRINKING PROBLEM. If your parents have money and her instinct was to go to them for help, you should have let her do that. That way, they are clued into her problem. By cushioning her from reality, you are not only protecting her from consequences but you are protecting her secret. That's no good for anyone. Don't give her money. Let her go to your parents. Encourage her to tell the truth and accept help. And let go. Do not, do not, do not give her money and do not be the one to tell your parents. She is a grown-up. Let her clean up her own messes.[/quote]
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