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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]He just said if you force his hand, you will LOSE in a contest with pot. It really doesn't matter what you insert in the place of pot, that's unacceptable. How can you go to therapy when he has told you one of your biggest issues has to be taken off the table?! I'm sorry, but this is over. Start planning your exit.[/quote]

I got divorced 15 years ago over this very issue.

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Any regrets? How long did it take you to come to the conclusion that was it?  Did you try counseling or other means to work it out?  And was it a dealbreaker for you - meaning, no pot use, ever or I will walk?  Thanks.[/quote]

We did go to therapy - we had no kids together.  Our therapist told us there were three people in the marriage. He was a major pot-head - as in, stoned each and every day and he absolutely refused to stop.  It took me a year to bail.  I'm not trying to excuse myself for marrying him but I was a very sheltered young woman when we married and had never been exposed to any sort of drug use and I believed him when he said he would stop after we were married (I was young and dumb).

Two years after our divorce I married a wonderful man - the love of my life - and we've been happily married for 12 years.  My ex-husband died of a drug overdose about 5 years ago.[/quote]

OP here - I'm glad you got to a good place.  and very sad (and sobering) to hear about your ex.[/quote]

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