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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Is it a breach of trust? Technically, no.  But it's a dick move to have your therapist say the things you can't say for yourself (yet), and not even be present so that your spouse could discuss them.

Fire your therapist.  S/he sounds like trouble.  And the next time you want to bring up a big issue, at least be present.[/quote]

OP here - therapist only said to him in their session that I was conflicted about the issue.  Nothing more was said.  He knows I'm conflicted because I've told him that time and time again over the course of our marriage, but have made concessions I wasn't comfortable with (and that I said I wasn't confirtsble with).  That's on me. What I hope for is open and honest dialogue where our respective concerns and needs are clearly communicated, heard and respected. Neither of us is particularly good at that - we need help - and not just on this issue.  Enter the couples sessions. I have a lot of hope for us, but also a lot of anxiety and fear.  [/quote]

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