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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I don't understand. He has an opinion on everything, but don't you, too? It seems like you think this is a woman's or your territory and want MORE say. While I can identify with that, I don't think it's fair. [/quote]

No, it isn't that.  He had an opinion about everything, and if he didn't like something I liked (which was most of the time), I had to keep trying to find something else.  Guest sheets, trash cans, silverware, bowls - which is so much more than I would have thought.  I get it for big things (even though if I really liked something it was hard to let it go), but having to clear every single thing and rarely having my choices make the cut was frustrating.  Paint colors, art, lamps, rugs, curtains, bath mats, bath towels, throw pillows, Christmas decorations, etc.  On and on and on.  Like a PP, I rarely chimed in on electronics or any room he claimed as all his.[/quote]

Honestly OP, it sounds like this is your issue more than it is his - many of the things you mentioned ARE big things, and all of the things you mentioned are things he's going to have to live with and see on a regular basis, too, why shouldn't he have an opinion?  If you WNAT a say on electronics or "his room", then you need to chime in.  It's modern times, what were traditionally a man or woman's "territory" are no more…

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