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[quote=Anonymous]My parents are divorced and my mom is very needy. Our solution was to move her closer to us and attend Dr.'s visit whether in person or via conference call/Skype. That way, we are hearing exactly what is being said. My mom's neediness is more based on her memory issues (very, very early stages on dementia). My MIL is also alone and we have caught her exaggerating about her health issues. We all take the position that if she has a real issue, we will have concrete evidence. All of these solutions were worked out between DH and I and our siblings and their spouses. Someone in the family needs to get grounded and help shape a long term care plan that works for everyone. OP - your wife needs therapy for anxiety and counseling with a person who can help her plan for her father's care. There are non profits that serve that mission and will consult people on the best options given all factors - money, lifestyle and health included.[/quote]
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