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[quote=Anonymous]Responding to 19:08, OP, it sounds like a really serious situation that you need to address before you have kids. It is clear that you are the only one who thinks this is a problem, and from what you said, it's really not a problem....yet. The liberal leave policy is being toned down, but no reprimands yet. The money is not an issue yet. The time away on short notice is not a problem yet. (Besides your sense of foreboding and worry about what wi happen if this continues, which is totally justified) I think you need to address in the context of "the future" and in planning for children. Otherwise it is a lot of "what ifs" tjwt can be blown off. I hate to say this, I really and truly do, but having children with a woman in this type of situation is going to be really really hard, exponentially harder, and I would want a serious discussion and agreement before I put myself or my children into the mix[/quote]
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