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[quote=Anonymous]Oh boy, you are planning to add kids to this soon! That is when this is all going to come to a head, just wait it out, honestly. When she is pregnant and has a newborn there will be a huge shift in what she can do/wants to do. Right now you are double income/no kids, which is very relevant. She CAN just hop on a plane, she CAN just charge plane tickets, etc. I would phrase any conversations you have about this in the broader context of having children together and what yoir expenses (college fund or plane ticket to see dad?) time (pay nanny for overtime for 3 day trip? You leave work early to do daycare pick up? Family vacation or use up days to see dad?) [/quote]
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