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[quote=Anonymous]Op, can you answer a couple questions to understand the situation better? 1. Do you have the money for the plane tickets easily or is it a major burden? ( for example, my BIL's 6k destination wedding cost almost put my DH's family in WW III, but to some families that cost is not prohibitive) 2. Is your wife's job in jeopardy? Is she not getting paid when she doesn't work and it's affecting finances? Are you able to use vacation days together or are all of her days taken up with family? 3. Do you have children that need time and care? How is she just jumping on a plane? (I could never just leave my 1 and 4 year old without some planning and major assistance with childcare) 5. Does she see this as a problem at all? [/quote]
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