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Reply to "Ex hubby's girlfriend moved in and didn't tell me"
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[quote=Anonymous]OP, I am in the healthy, functional version of your situation. My ex told me when his relationship became serious enough to introduce GF to DD. Not asking for permission but letting me know because it was w big deal thing that affects DD's life. When she moved in, he also let me know that that was happening. I'm not interested in being friends with his lady, but we've met and are cordial with each other. She has my phone number and email in case there is an emergency (with DD when she's over there or with my ex himself). Maybe you could mention this proactively to your ex - "Just wanted to make sure M knows how to get in touch in case there's an emergency." The posters flipping out on you are completely nuts. I'm sure they require background checks and references for an occasional babysitter but think your discomfort with your ex concealing a live in caregiver and asking a seven year old to lie is crazy. That should tell you a lot. [/quote]
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