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[quote=Anonymous]This is my life, every night (minus the hotel). I'm single, with no kids.

I don't know how you all (parents, mostly, not just married people) do it, and the hardest part to imagine is that you just dive into it headfirst. There's no 'easing into' life with kids. You go into the hospital without one (for the first one) and come home with one, and then it's 24/7, for years. If I ever get to being in your situation, I can guarantee I will feel the same way.

It it helps, when it gets tough, remember that there are those of us living your 'fantasy' for tonight, every night. I'm not complaining, I like my life, and thus far haven't met anyone I was willing to change it for. It is what it is because of the choices I've made, and I don't regret them.

However, there are nights when it would be amazing to come home to someone (a kid, a partner, both). Tonight, I came home from a big social event with a girlfriend after a few drinks - her husband picked us up and dropped us off - which is super sweet - but they went home to have sex with each other (I imagine) and I came home and logged on to the internet, checked DCUM and my online dating messages. Again - not complaining, diminishing, or implying you should feel guilty - I'm lucky, and I'm happy, but there are definitely advantages to both situations. [/quote]

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