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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous] The bolded part saids it all, OP. Why don't you get a divorce now. Then you can go live where ever you want without fearing your DH will retire and join you.[/quote] +1 You don't love your husband, OP. It's clear. So get out of the marriage. [b]Oh, what's that? You want the[i] substantial wealth[/i] [b]he's[/b] earned?[/b] You're selfish and horrible.[/quote] Giving up her career to raise THEIR children - gave her ZERO income. What is a FAIR part of HIS income, after 20+ years of marriage should be hers?[/quote] She can get alimony. No child support since the kids are grown. The courts have a way of dividing the assets based on earnings and years married and if she got a divorce instead of going off to live somewhere else by herself and expecting him to support her, she'll find out.[/quote] I don't think you understand how emotionally draining being a stay at home mom can be especially when your "job" ends and you are no longer needed in the role you've had for 20+ years. OP needs time to find herself - re-energize. I wish her all the best. THIS is her mid-life crisis! ((HUGS OP)))[/quote]
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