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[quote=Anonymous]I think the problem comes from the fact that is is VERY difficult to convince anyone that their perception of a situation may not be accurate. Therefore, most people leave couples counseling feeling the exact same way as when they went it (I am right and spouse and/or counselor is wrong). My experience: Ex dh insisted on counseling after he found out I had cheated. We went to 4 or 5 sessions and each one made him angrier and angrier. He felt the therapist's attempts at getting to the root of the relationship problem rather then focusing on the cheating was unfair and biased. To him, the affair was the ONLY problem in the relationship. Eventually he got so angry at a session that he threw a pillow across the room and stormed out, leaving me there with no car. We separated shortly after. [/quote]
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