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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I think that she and her serious bf are about to get engaged and she will want us to be in the wedding... that's the only thing I can think of. 
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She's not even engaged yet, but you're assuming you'll be asked to be in the wedding and are already trying to come up with reasons not to?

And you said SHE tended to make things all about her![/quote]

THIS.

You've clearly got a chip on your shoulder and it's not cute.  Your post makes you sound like an awful person, no wonder she didn't get along well with you.

[/quote]  +1 BTW it sounds like your DH is more than a little to blame for the dynamics of your relationship.  He never should have told you that she said you looked like a stuck up sorority girl.  Many things are said in jest (or not) that do not need to be passed on.  My DH's sister pulls that kid of crap all the time triangulating relationships in the family, repeating things that should never be repeated and generally, screwing around with everyone's relationships.  Sounds like DH, his sister and you all have issues. I can't believe you are fretting over something like that may or may not happen. [/quote]

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