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[quote=Anonymous]I am of Indian origin born in the US. My mother has OP's bean counting mentality. Always talking about obligations and keeping score. Both directions. She is uncomfortable accepting offers of help from others without repaying them in some way. She is in her 80s now and many offer to help her in various ways but she refuses because she doesn't want to be obligated. It is ridiculous; these people want to help. It has unfortunately rubbed off on me and I feel the immediate need to repay favors, play dates... I think it turns some people off. Sorry for the thread jack.[/quote]
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