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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You sound quite judgmental. Did she tell you she was "disappointed and stressed" by her life or are you inferring it? Either way, it sounds like you two are too different to be good friends anymore. You would both be better off ending the friendship- you don't like her values and she probably doesn't need your judgment. She might be better off finding more sympathetic friends who don't pat themselves on the back for making 6 figures. [/quote]

Not trying to be judgmental at all. Yes, every conversation we have she tells me how destitute she is and how scared she is for her future. It's most of our conversations. In fact, if I was judgmental I would have called her out on some of her decisions but I have never opened my mouth. Those are her decisions to make not mine.  I have been very sympathetic. In fact, when her husband was let go from his job and needed an employment attorney I called my friend and asked him for the favor (he didn't want money but I did a big favor for him to essentially pay for his service).

Wasn't trying to pat my back for six figures. I was trying to merely explain the vast financial difference. I don't know any better way to illustrate that.[/quote]

You're not fooling anyone, OP.

Your first post was brimming with smugness about how your friend had it good when she was young, but, by golly, you worked hard and sacrificed, and she didn't, and now you're doing way better and now she is distant.

Get some self-awareness, please. [/quote]

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