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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]You are still healing OP. Give yourself sometime and you will start to love again. I feel really sorry for you. &lt;&lt;hugs&gt;&gt; Anger is part of the grieving process.

Talk to your DH about how much it means to you. The three of you are in a different place now then you were back then. She will be moving out soon and that may change things for her. Hang in there. [/quote]

She has been healing for 2+ years, being merely civil and quiet. Seriously, you think that is fair to the child involved? I am sorry, but that is way, way, way selfish.[/quote]

You obviously have a child and are not grieving the child you will never have (birth or adoption).  OP is hurting as she wants a child.  Her husband agreed to a child and then changed his mind after she suffered a terrible loss. It is her husband's job to parent his daughter and show her that he can love her and a new child and both are welcomed and wanted in their family.  If her husband does not support her, how can one expect his daughter who is probably also picking up on his emotions.  We had a lot of difficulty becoming parents and it took many years.. I understand that heartache and it isn't something one can just turn off.    [/quote]

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