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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]No one can say what will bother you or not.  So this bothered you.  I don't see what's wrong with clarifying exactly where you are in a non confrontational way.  I mean what would the consequences be?  I'm not sure i agree with the other posters who said you were too sensitive.  Actually, I really disagree.  You are what you are, no judgment.  Your husband should be accepting of where you are coming from.

Geezus h. Crist, I think the posters here should lighten up.[/quote]

The consequences can be that her husband begins to pull away because he has no idea what to say.  He tries to say something nice, he upsets her. He tries to say the sex is good, an she gets upset.  I've seen it happen first hand where eventually you stop trying because it's not good enough.  Her dh sounds like a good guy for bein patient and understanding with her.  But he has feelings and emotions too that are just as important as hers. [/quote]

That's a stretch.  From one conversation to clarify to DH can't handle it and completely rejects her.  What a ridiculous reach.  I assume we are talking about two people who care about one another.  I still don't see a non confrontational explanation resulting in more distance.  You don't have me sold of either too sensitive or talking would end up spiraling out of control.  She cares enough about being a pleasing partner - it's not a big deal to want affirmation.  Wtf.[/quote]

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