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[quote=Anonymous]So, I actually think what seems like "overreacting" to everyone else makes some sense to me in context of a previous sexual trauma and current struggles with sexual intimacy. OP, it's a long road you are on and your partner will go through his own issues/phases. These bumps happen, but your feelings are your feelings and whats most important is that you spend time trying to understand what they are about, and what you need from your partner. And then ask for that. It then becomes a matter of seeing if you guys can negotiate a compromise, or better understand whats happening. Two books, if you have not read them already: Allies in Healing and The Sexual Healing Journey. I will admit that I HATED them, and RESENT the sh*t out of having to do the work that I did, but they have helped.[/quote]
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