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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP. wow.  I didn't think asking for support in a rough time was asking too much from a spouse.

And i think it's abusive because there has been coldness and lack of empathy for a long time.  This is a small specific example of the way I get treated, whether asking for something or not.

But this gang shift in blame to me - that I did something to cause it- is very interesting.

Not much of the snotty comments are insightful to me, but say a lot about the posters.

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Interesting. I am 20:02 and I posted a thoughtful reply, but you seem to want to be a victim here and IRL. This might be something you want to take a look at, maybe with the help of a licensed psychotherapist?[/quote]

OP, typically, when people are posting here and giving examples, they give the best example that they can think of, one that really makes their point. What you have posted is silly and not at all worthy of the extreme drama you are creating. I think it's interesting that you now prefer to "blame" the posters, who almost universally agree that you are the problem. Your poor DH>[/quote]

What I did was take the most historically recent example.  Point taken.[/quote]

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