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Reply to "Should a DW have to earn her role as a SAHM?"
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[quote=Anonymous]It's not about "earning" anything. It's not necessarily a cakewalk. It's about working. Any partner has to be willing to work to contribute to their family. For some, that's achieved by working. For others, it's by staying home and saving the cost of daycare and another commute, the stress of finding backup child care in weather/health situations, doing the shopping/cooking/cleaning/bulk of the child rearing, handling the school and activity stuff, taking the kids to all appointments so working parent can work, etc. I didn't "earn" the right to any of that- that's how I contribute to my family right now. The situation you have described- there's nothing being contributed to the family in that scenario. That person is simply a drain on the family's resources. [/quote]
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