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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]OP here. I know this sounds weird but I think DH has an incredibly low sex drove and I know he is not cheating. I adore my 2 kids more than anything in the whole world but I guess with it being valentine's day weekend I realized I have totally fallen put of love with DH. When I went to write a sentiment in the card I had nothing to say but Happy VValentine's Day.

Maybe this can be salvaged.

But how do you drop this on someone - how do you say "I feel miserable because you are a good man but I think I don't love you anymore".

And when I got married I made a vow. Looks fade etc. Sigh. I have no idea anymore.[/quote]

You begin by talking to him about what a great father he is, how much you respect him as a parent, and how your roles have changed as you have had kids.  Let him know that you are worried that you have become room-mates instead of lovers.  Don't tell him that you don't love him, that is just cruel.  Don't you still love him as the father of your kids?  I think that the easiest way to really start a conversation is to ask him a few questions.  How about, "How do you feel about our relationship right now?"  Or "Are you happy with the state of our relationship."  Let him do some talking and then you can respond.[/quote]

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