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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a recipe for a disaster.

But could be a great reality show.

All kidding aside, if you were a true best friend OP you would never have made the comment to us that there are sparks between you and your best friend's husband.

In all honesty, that is not something a best friend says about her best friend's spouse.

I think you should do her a favor and sever the friendship immediately before you hurt her.[/quote]

I don't agree.  OP is trying to come up with a solution, and that involves coming clean.  You can't help when sparks fly.  What you do *when* sparks fly is what matters.

OP needs to get away from both of them, to give her friend and her DH's marriage a chance.  To be a friend is to be supportive of their marriage (unless it's abusive etc) and not, by continuing to orbit in their circle, knowingly assist in damaging or not helping the marriage.  If she gets away from them, it will help clear her head, and help her friend's DH clear his.  Sure it will be a bummer to not see her girlfriend, but continuing to do so is not being a good friend to her girlfriend as it keeps OP in that couple's world.[/quote]

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