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[quote=Anonymous]It doesn't matter who he is. What matters is for you to understand the following, really understand it in your bones:

1. There is nothing you have done or said to bring this on. He already is who he is, and he would be the exact same person with anyone else.

2.  There is nothing you can say or do, no strategy you can adopt, no tightrope you can walk to change him.  There is no winning path.  You cannot change this person.

3. If you stay with this person for any length of time, you will be broken.  He will break you because that's the only way they operate.

4.  There is nothing you can say, no perfect words you can find to make him understand the way you feel and make the appropriate changes.  He is not interested in how you feel.  He is not interested in understanding anything that goes on with you.  He knows what he wants, and it will not be affected by how you feel.  How you feel is irrelevant to him.

5.  Things will always be exactly as they are today, or worse.  Do you want this for life?[/quote]

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