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[quote=Anonymous]Quote:  NP. You've laid out a course for OP, and in so doing, indirectly suggest that her attraction to the OM is through failings on OP's part. I'd be interested in hearing your thoughts on what responsibility or actions his wife should take. Because she has to have some role the maintenance and continued development of their marriage. She's not a passenger. That's why threads like this that can only present one side aren't that useful.

Reply:  I agree with you.  Both parties have a responsibility to maintain the partnership.  I started to add what the general list of the top five things that are common for men to desire from their spouse, but it made the post very long.

Affairs can have many motivations. I think everyone in a marriage has to deal with being attracted to someone else. It's not where most women act.  It is admittedly a generalization.

For me being in a long term marriage has really enriched my life, and I think it's worth investing in treating your spouse well......both spouses.
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