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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]Heartfelt conversations, date nights, stepping it up sexually - all of that is great but she will keep fantasizing about the other guy because it's a forbidden fruit. I say this as a DW who is infatuated with another person. I will not act on it and your wife won't either, but that fantasy will always be there. [/quote]

Does your DH know of your infatuation?  If not, how would you feel if he did?[/quote]

NP here in a similar situation.  I guess hope he would learn to step his game up in these arenas.  He seems to be satsified sexually and romantically by getting in bed and having sex- any kind, just several minutes of grinding away. I'm not. [b] I require some romance, date nights, and foreplay. [/b] I wonder how many men have wives who fantasize about others because they aren't satisfying her.[/quote]

This.  Sex is sex.  I like it, but it becomes a chore if I'm not being romanced.  Just wanting my body doesn't make me feel desired, it makes me feel like a means to an end.  Take some time out of the bedroom to make me feel loved and wanted for more than a warm wet hole.[/quote]

Exactly. I am not a masturbation aid. [b]It takes 20 mins of foreplay for most women to become fully aroused and get the natural lube that will make sex feel the best. I wonder how many men who complain about sexless marriage give their women 20 min of foreplay each time- I am guessing very few[/b].[/quote]

Yep. I agree with you there.  It's totally within their power to change this... but most of them don't want to do the work. [/quote]

It's a two-way street.[/quote]

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