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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]There's a lot to say for circumstance.  Did he say he was 'meeting folks from class' and she assumed it was studying or group work?  He may not have omitted it and just didn't think details were important.  Once a week with young kids is a bit much, especially if she doesn't have that opportunity.  I think it's oversight than slighting though.  If she never said 'I'm going to grab drinks with x, y and z, you got the kids?', he might assume she's not interested in doing that rather and is choosing to be home with the kids instead to seeing friends.

So I would talk about it since it sounds like that wasn't done before, you'd be surprised at how much is assumed that are incorrect.[/quote]

He has admitted to 1) omitting it  and 2) downplaying it.

What happened is that someone mentioned what time the classes ended and I was blindsided... Did the math based on what time he was getting home, and it left me speechless. It was 6-8 hours. That is basically socializing like you are 27 and have no greater responsibilities than going out and blowing off steam, even if half of the time involved talking about school stuff. Who cares what he was talking about. Unless that is directly invested time into something that either pays our bills or has a direct positive impact on our life as a family, ,no married man should be out for the equivalent of a business day.

If you don't have young kids, no way you are understanding this. [/quote]

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