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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks for giving it to me straight everyone...
Im feeling less trapped

What im so totally baffled by is the abrupt change in his behavior. First couple years, I never gave him money for anything. He was gainfully employed. And yes, I get it was totally stupid to tell him to quit...given that i never gave him money before, I just did not anticipate hed do this to me. I know I have to get out...
cant tell if hes taking me for a ride because well im letting him...or if hes using drugs (ive never seen it) or hes on the spectrum (dude is obsessed with science fiction) or like a PP said emerging schizophrenia. I have no one in my universe being forthright with me and so Im feeling crazy. Dude acts like NOTHING is wrong and this is titally normal. He freaked me out with the comments about the violent dream...and told it in a joking way...like with a creepy cackle.

Im totally baffled that someone who was their class president, honors student, editor of school newspaper and recipient of multiple scholarships in high school cannot get his act together. All of his friends and family members lead normal self sufficient adult lives. And then there's him...acting like his behavior us normal. I DONT GET IT..WHAT IN THE FUCK IS WRONG WITH HIM?

Im going to cs ll kindled on monday to discuss..

Ps went to see couples therapist and he convinced therapist *not the one I see ( that him being unemployed, going to school and nit letting me in on hiw school is going us normal and im irrational. The fuck![/quote]

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