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[quote=Anonymous]I lived with a very similar boyfriend for awhile and was going to tell you what I did.  But then I read the creepy violent dream thing, and that really sends up weird red flags to me.

So here's my suggestion if he never had dream and is otherwise normal:

When my boyfriend did the same thing, and I was paying our collective cell phone bill, he continually ran up extra minutes (back in the day you had to pay for them).  We had fight after fight on that.  He finally said, "well you used more minutes than I did."  I said I'm freaking paying the bill!  And threw his cell phone in the trash.   That woke him up and he got his ass in gear.  [b]Don't enable by paying for his fun stuff.  [/b] Unfortunately, by the time all that happened, I'd lost all respect for him and we broke up.

Advice with the dream:

He's 25 and I find the dream really disturbing.  I find it very disturbing that his first university is telling him not to come back.   My concern here is not grades but behavior.   Is that a possibility?   I wonder if he's got some emerging mental health issues that you don't quite see yet.  It is the prime age for young adults to develop schizophrenia.    [/quote]

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