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[quote=Anonymous]Sounds to me like husband feels powerless with bitchy wife so he lets his mother interject because he feels he is a victim; wife feels the need to be bitchy because she feels powerless in some way because perhaps husband is thoughtless or passive or unhelpful or fill in the blank (figure out what is deficient that is possibly exascerbating any bitchiness). MIL feels powerless to see her son emasculated on a regular basis by his bitchy wife, hence she chastises DIL, which is uncool. Time for counseling with some strict behavior guidelines. OP def go on the trip and have a great time. Do not leave flowers behind. Just be sweet on the phone. Show no guilt. This was HER idea. Just enjoy the break and plan to try to be a listening and thoughtful partner when you get back and start dealing with the deeper issues. Often when someone is that bitchy there is some resentment and maybe you can get to the bottom of it and liberate your marriage from this ugliness.[/quote]
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