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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]What do you mean that he was "maintaining a cache"?  Do you mean he just kept a pile of pics in a shoebox in the top of the closet, or are you saying he has a file on his computer that he looks at and updates often?  "Maintaining" suggests ongoing upkeep.

If he has a pile of old photos somewhere in the basement or something, I would let this go.  If he's taking it out and looking at it every week or if it's on his current computer, I'd just say I'm uncomfortable with it.[/quote]

+1. OP, if he has photos in a box somewhere, or a file on a computer, it doesn't sound like there's any reason for you to be upset. I didn't comprehensively eliminate all traces of my former life when I entered a relationship with DH. I don't think it's reasonable to expect that. If your husband visits these pictures often, or if you have reason to believe that he's still in touch with or pining for this woman, that's another matter. That would be "maintaining a cache" in a troubling way. Simply having pictures is not a big deal.

How did you find these pictures in the first place?[/quote]

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