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[quote=Anonymous]OP, is the issue just that they are there or that they make extra work for you? If it's the former, you probably have to suck it up, even though 4 days/month is a lot. Stay in your room more and let DH and the in laws babysit. If it's the work, DH needs to step up. I agree that for one visit you should try to get out of town for most or all of it, to show DH how much work it entails. A weekend would definitely be best so that there is not excuse that someone has to work and can't take care of the baby.Are you a SAHM (ie without you there is no childcare) or is there daycare or a nanny? If the latter this plan will be much easier. If the former, you will need to negotiate for more work from your DH. [/quote]
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