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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote]What if this was OP's funeral? (sorry, OP!) Would it be okay for her nephew to miss a funeral of a close family member for a soccer tournament? A wedding is just as important and I'd say almost more so since the guest of honor is alive to appreciate your presence.[/quote]

I would be fine with a 14 year old nephew who I didn't see very often (per OP's original post) missing either my wedding or my funeral.  And I don't even care about sports at all.[/quote]

I actually have a family situation very similar to OP.  Extremely close sister in different state with teenage niece and nephew.

If I'm dead, please go to the sports tournament!!!

I think this boils down to how your family operates.  Some families really place a lot of value on showing up for the big events - must be there at all the holidays, birthday parties, graduations, etc.  And some families aren't like that but are still very close.  It doesn't mean one way is better or one family loves each other more.[/quote]

+1000

Give me a family where everyone just trusts in what they mean to each other, rather than one with an attendance sheet.[/quote]

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