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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]I disagree with most posters.  You need to go if possible.  Part of being a good person and friend is being happy for others when they have something or accomplish something, regardless if you have.   Ow if you became pregnant would you still not want to attend showers?   Just like you were a bridesmaid before you met your husband, you need to attend showers.  Be thankful for the many positive things in your life and have faith things for you will work out.  [/quote]

I mostly agree, too. Sharing other people's happiness looks good on you, too. The exception would be the previous poster who was in the midst of the miscarriage. That's a really good reason NOT to go.

Also: I skipped a baby shower the day I had one of my failed  IUIs. It was just too much for me, emotionally. Looking back, I kind of wished I had gone.  Being around other women, mothers who were nursing and mothers-to-be probably would have been good for me hormonally. All those awesome pheromones right have helped! 
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