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[quote=Anonymous]OP here. Thanks to all. To clarify for those who seem fixated on my love life, even if I did have good chances objectively, I am in no place to date. As noted above, my "non-cheating" husband appears to have given me a potentially life-threatening disease acquired while he was out "not cheating". I am dealing with that as well as the aftermath of all the years of abuse. Perhaps I will beat this and recover. Perhaps I won't. Either way, the road ahead is not a simple one. I intend to focus on building up myself. The person who suggested a class I've always wanted to take is more the direction I'm likely to go. I am grieving, not fixated on my dating chances. One of the things I am grieving is how different my life turned out to be from the one I thought I was going to have when I stood up in front of all those people in my mother's wedding dress. Thanks to all who offered encouragement in any aspect of this - even if not an aspect on which I can focus right now. I know you all were trying to encourage me, and I am trying to send encouragement back to you for whatever you may be dealing with in your own lives. I do not have a monopoly on pain, even if it sometimes feels like it.[/quote]
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