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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]PP, thats not true. Most men would prefer a blow job over waiting indefinitely for their wives to feel horny naturally. OP needs to fake it until she makes it.[/quote]

DH here, about five months into this kind of drought, and for the record: I would not prefer a service job or duty sex.

I would prefer it if my wife said "gee, I would have fun playing, but my vajayjay is out of action, so let me play with you", but only if she was into it.  Otherwise it's kind of insulting/patronizing.  My wife is totally NOT into it, and given that, I'm happier taking care of myself rather than extracting chore/duty sex out of her.[/quote]

YOU are awesome and mature.

And actually, when the duty/obligation/demanding attitude is taken out of sex, it's a lot easier to think about one's own pleasure and thus get turned on and into sex.  THIS is the attitude more men need to have.[/quote]

If you guys only knew how many pity/mercy/take one the team fucks/blow jobs we throw you, your heads would spin. :P [/quote]

+1. I'm the PP who suggested this earlier. I've definitely thought "let me go fuck his brains out" so that he passes out before my TV show comes on and I can have some peace.LOL![/quote]

And I'll bet that, on more than a few occasions, what started out as sex "for him" ended up being a good time for you too. A lot of times, plain old inertia gets in the way of sex, but once you get going, it's enjoyable. [/quote]

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