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[quote=Anonymous][quote]I'm already marriage 2 and second set of kids for him, could have seen it coming if I hadn't been so blind at the time. Water under the bridge...[/quote] OP, what are his obligations to his first set of kids, are they sufficient and has he upheld them? I would really make sure that you have a lawyer or a financial planner with serious divorce experience look over your agreement. You mentioned that he would 'pay for daycare if you needed it'--that's a promise, that's not a legally binding agreement on splitting educational costs. finally, you may be a good manager of money and worker, but what if something happens to you? What if you are incapacitated and can't work? take all the great points that others have raised and address them, and get someone to look over the agreement. I'm sure it feels good to get along and not have a horrible conflictual divorce, but don't screw yourself--and your child/ren--over just to avoid more pain and discord. [/quote]
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