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Reply to "DH sobered up, I'm contemplating an EA, advice?"
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[quote=Anonymous][quote=Anonymous]This is a good thread. One thing I'm wondering about, as a child of an alcoholic (maybe two) and a confirmed cheater, is if there is a worry that an affair - physical or even emotional - would drive DH (or DW) back to drinking. Just seems a natural consequence in addition to the ones that go with cheating generally, and one my family endured. Maybe that is giving the alcoholic too much control?[/quote] Not your responsibility. The alcoholic is responsible for their own drinking. If the world ended tomorrow, it's still their choice to drink or not. You have to let go of the illusion that you can control the alcoholic's drinking.[/quote]
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